Hi JudgeDreadz,
My experience of shared accommodation - which I used for a decade or so - was that it's definitely well worth doing, provided that you understand that it never really works properly...
This might sound conflicting or odd but all the experiences, good and bad, that I had in shared flats and houses proved to be a great learning course for the ultimate test of accommodation sharing - marriage.
In both cases you have to learn to be tolerant and accept compromises, develop a system for resolving differences, etc. You'll never get everything you want all the time...
The sort of things that never worked evenly in the places I shared ranged from the different hours people kept, varying standards on house cleaning and or cooking, who paid which share for what, and so on. For instance, in all the flats and houses I shared we never found a system that sorted the phone bill out without somebody feeling they had been dudded. Similarly with food (I remember one couple getting their knickers severely twisted about who had used the last of the butter. Wow! Let's call in the UN peacekeepers....) electricity etc.
Apparently having one all inclusive charge can work quite well to cover things like rent, house insurance and electricity (now that most of us have a mobile phone) and even cleaning. One guy on another forum who lets places used a weekly cleaner whose cost was included in the total rental package. Food can be trickier - who cooks what and when, use of fridge, food smells etc. As Johny said you have no control over what their mates are like either.
But I had some great times during those years, and I'm sure that my sharing days were the apprenticeship that allowed me to subsequently navigate through 30 years of marriage with relative ease.
Good luck, and try to accept the bumpy bits when and if they come.
Cheers,
Chris
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