No worries. I will shed some light on my situation to help you understand contested wills and help you avoid some disappointments.
My father was married for the 2nd time. Marriage lasted 14 years before my Dad died. 1st wife (my Mum) died about 10 years earlier.
There are 3 children, all from the first marriage of which I am one of the children.
The family home Dad lived in, was the family home which Dad owned 100% since 1982. The house was bought in 1979 by my Mum and Dad.
2nd wife moved into this house after she was married to my Dad.
2nd wife was given life tenancy in the will and $40k cash in Dads will. 2nd wife wasn't happy with this, she wanted the whole house or 1 million dollars.
In the will, after the 2nd wife dies, the house was supposed to be sold and split equally between the 3 children.
I am the executor of the will.
2nd wife contests, the other 2 children contest too, thinking that would protect their inheritance.
I didn't contest. If I did I would have to surrender my position as executor. I wanted to keep control so I could distribute the assets to the best of my Fathers wishes. That didn't work out so well in the end LOL.
Under the family provisions act, a wife is allowed a % of the estate based on how long the couple were married. In todays society, 14 years is considered a long time by the legal profession.
BASICALLY, only someone who was related or financially dependent can contest a will under the family provisions act. So if you are looking after a homeless person by providing them money and shelter, they are financially dependent and can contest your will. If you are a wife/ husband surviving, you are entitled to contest a will if you were not left most of the estate and you were married a long time. If you have a defacto living with you, they can contest a will. The longer they are living with you the more they are entitled to under the Act. The more they rely on you financially, the more they are entitled to in the will, if they feel they are not given enough.
So in our case, my QC said from the very beginning, she will get the largest peice of the estate. Based on the formula set out in the Family Provisions Act and how long they were married for and the size of the estate, she was entitled to about $800k to 1m.
She got 950k of which 500k was mine. Because I was the most successful person financially in the family, I stood to loose the most. And I did. She took about 300k from my brothers share and about 150k from my sister. My wife had to pay my sister 30k from here share of my matrimonial home which I had to sell because my Dad and I half a 50/50 share in it. My dad left his share of our home to my wife.
We paid the 30k to make the case go away. We have children on the way and we don't want the stress of losing our assets we live of. That is our life insurance if I die.
The assets my Dad left me in the trust were untouched. None of the lawyers wanted any of it for some reason. Suppose they think the assets in our trust were impossible to touch.
So, every other asset I have is going into the trust as well, regardless of the stamp duty. Not that a trust is 100% safe. They aren't. A court can rule that the assets in a trust be sold and given to the plaintiff.
The bottom line is, becareful who you marry or live with or financially support. They could just turn out to be a gold digger like my step mother. (Who happened to have here own property too).
When it comes to asset protection, and wills, read the Family Provisions act.
You are not entitled to give your money to whoever you like.
Which is why my barrister said to give what you want to away 5 years before die.
Alternatively, get a reverse mortgage and spend up big
